6 Ways Ditching Porn Can Improve Your Dating Game

By KC Getting into a pornography habit isn’t uncommon for both men and women—because pornography isn’t just a guys’ issue—who find themselves single on a Saturday night. What is common is the misconception that pornography is just a personal habit that doesn’t affect those around you, but that is simply not the case. Even a […]

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3 Ways Watching Porn Fuels Isolation and Hurts Friendships

By KC There is a growing body of scientific evidence that shows how porn can separate consumers from the things and people they love most. We fight against porn because we’re fighting #ForTheLoveOf everything worthwhile in life. As humans, we are hard-wired to be social beings—to interact with others, to be in relationships. Friendship is […]

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5 Ways to Tell Your Partner You Love Them Without Using Words

By KC There is a growing body of scientific evidence that shows how porn can separate consumers from the things and people they love most. We fight against porn because we’re fighting #ForTheLoveOf everything worthwhile in life. Falling in love is one of the best feelings in the world. Sharing years of your life with […]

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Can Struggling with Porn Just Be My “Lot in Life?”

By Craig Gross Hey, it’s Craig. This week, I’m talking about a couple of “frequently asked questions” I often receive: “Is watching porn just my lot in life? Am I always going to struggle? Am I always going to be addicted?” I get it. If you’re struggling with porn today, it’s very defeating. The Bible […]

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Can I Change?

By Craig Gross Hey, Craig here. You might have come to XXXchurch because you feel frustrated with yourself. Maybe you’re feeling sad and defeated because you haven’t been able to beat your porn or sex addiction. Maybe you feel like you’ll never be able to stop… In this week’s Whiteboard Session video, Steven Luff, a […]

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How Do I Get Over the Pain & Resentment Caused by Divorce?

By Craig Gross Hey, it’s Craig (obviously). This week, we’re talking about divorce. A glaring, recurring question often asked of us is, “Just how do I get through the pain and the trauma of my divorce or the resentment caused from the divorce?” How do I move on from that? Personally, I can’t put myself […]

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5 Tips to Help You Stay Strong While You Quit Porn

By KC January is almost over—have you kept up with your resolutions? It’s still the beginning of 2019, and we hope you’re ready to ditch porn for good. If it’s something you or a loved one are struggling with, whether it’s been a few weeks or a years-long habit, porn doesn’t have to be a […]

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Why Do I Look At Porn When Times Get Tough?

By Craig Gross This month we’re talking about resentment and here’s another question that comes up: “Why do I look at porn when times get tough?” Let’s say something bad happens to you: you get fired, you have a fight with your wife, the list goes on and on. For lots of people, emotional or […]

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Meet Henry, the World’s First Generation of Male Sex Robot

By KC Cover image photo by Engadget. 5 minute read. TRIGGER WARNING The following post contains descriptions of sexual scenarios that may be triggering for those recovering from a struggle with porn. Since 2017, founder of Realbotix Matt McMullen has faced more than his fair share of criticism for his creation of the female RealDoll, […]

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Why This U.S. Marine Decided to Give Up Porn for Good

By KC We sat down with an active duty Marine to hear his journey of heavy porn consumption, completely ditching it, and the changes he has seen in himself throughout his experience. Preferring to go by the name “Clark Kent,” he expressed how he wanted to have people hear his story. “My journey has been […]

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My Wife Is So Angry About My Porn Use, What Can I Do?

By Craig Gross Hey guys, Craig again. This month we’re talking about resentment, so – speaking of – here’s a question I often receive: “My wife is so angry about my porn use, what can I do?” If you’re reading that question and coming to the realization that, “Oh no! That’s me…!” – you’re in […]

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“R Kelly” Tops Porn Site Searches After Docuseries Debuts Detailing Sexual Assault Allegations Against Him

By KC Cover photo from Mike Pont/Getty Images. Retrieved from The Cut. Sexual assault and abuse allegations have surrounded Robert Sylvester Kelly—known as R. Kelly—for years, but his career has continued to thrive. Reports cite him as one of the most successful R&B artists in history. Recently, though, the new Lifetime documentary Surviving R. Kelly […]

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