QotD: “A ban on killers using the “rough sex defence” in England and Wales is set to become law after MPs supported an amendment to the Domestic Abuse Bill”

By antiplondon A ban on killers using the “rough sex defence” in England and Wales is set to become law after MPs supported an amendment to the Domestic Abuse Bill. The bill now rules out “consent for sexual gratification” as a defence for causing serious harm. The wide-ranging legislation will also place a duty on […]

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QotD: “The clause added by the government rules out ‘consent for sexual gratification’ as a defence for causing serious harm”

By antiplondon The amendment outlawing the “rough sex” defence will be added to the Domestic Abuse Bill today, as it enters its Report Stage in the House of Commons. The clause added by the government rules out “consent for sexual gratification” as a defence for causing serious harm, in England and Wales. Labour’s Harriet Harman, […]

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How To Share Your Story to Help Others Through Theirs

By Valorie Kieper Debilitating guilt. Difficult habits. Dehumanized marriage. You recognize the warning signs of sexual addiction because you have firsthand experience. While your story might not be something you’ve shared with everyone, you’ll notice that some people will need to hear it. You’ll find yourself wanting to guide them to the exit. Am I […]

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Why You Need To Forgive To Get Free

By Sathiya Sam Did you know that unforgiveness could be stopping you from overcoming pornography? I’ve worked with a lot of men over the years to help them get free of porn. I’ve worked with young and old, rich and poor, students, doctors, and everything in between. And I’m always amazed at how no one […]

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QotD: “Here’s what’s about ethical porn: it doesn’t matter. It makes up such a tiny proportion of the industry, it’s like putting a chicken in your back garden and claiming you’ve fixed factory farming”

By antiplondon Whenever I agree to write about porn, it’s followed by an immediate plummeting of my soul: oh God, I’m going to have to look at PornHub now. PornHub is the second biggest website in the world for adult content by traffic, but in terms of public profile, it’s far and away the leader. […]

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QotD: “German lawmakers call for buying sex to be made permanently illegal”

By antiplondon Coronavirus has caused Germany’s brothels to close their doors, but some politicians want the ban to become permanent. “Sexual activities are not compatible with social distancing measures,” they wrote to state premiers. Prominent German politicians on Tuesday called for brothels to be closed indefinitely, extending their temporary closure due to coronavirus restrictions. Sixteen […]

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Tangible Steps to Freedom

By Jamie Perez “Motivation is what gets you to start, and habit is what keeps you going.” – Jim Ryun These words summarize the path I’ve taken to healing from my addictions: alcohol, promiscuity, and living a generally hedonistic lifestyle. I remember what first led me to my addictions–pain, boredom, sometimes just an empty feeling […]

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What Happens After 10 Years of No Porn?

By Doug Issichopoulos From a predator to a protector A few years ago, one of my pastors told me, “Men tend to become one of two things: a predator of women or a protector of women.” Again and again, I’ve seen this statement proved right — not just in others’ lives but also in my […]

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You Are Never Too Far Gone

By Matt Galbraith I thought I was too far gone There was a time in my addiction to pornography that I began to believe that I had gone too far. I thought God stopped loving me, that His forgiveness had run out, and that He was done with me. They were all lies, but I […]

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QotD: “More than 60 victims have been forced to go to court over the past decade to deny that they consented to strangulation, assaults or violence”

By antiplondon More than 60 victims have been forced to go to court over the past decade to deny that they consented to strangulation, assaults or violence, according to the campaign to end reliance on the “rough sex” defence. Figures for the number of such court appearances have been collected by the organisation We Can’t […]

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Help! My Spouse Just Told Me They Watch Porn.

By Kate Botha You can see in your spouse’s eyes that something is wrong. His eyes shift nervously to different things in the room but never meet yours. She opens her mouth to speak, but no words come out. Whether you are the wife or the husband waiting for your spouse to tell you what’s […]

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QotD: “A Canadian teenager is facing the country’s first “incel”-related terrorism charges in connection with a machete attack at a Toronto massage parlour that left a young mother dead”

By antiplondon A Canadian teenager is facing the country’s first “incel”-related terrorism charges in connection with a machete attack at a Toronto massage parlour that left a young mother dead. It is believed to be the first Canadian terror case not tied to Islamic extremism and could mark a turning point, experts say, as the […]

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Alia’s Story – She Left the Porn Industry Behind

By Alia Cheyenne I always knew I would enter the sex industry. My understanding of worth and beauty was so entangled with that of the porn stars I had grown up idealizing, that entering the industry was inevitable. Leaving, on the other hand, was something I never expected. My earliest memories are intertwined with pornography […]

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How I Overcame Childhood Trauma

By Brittni De La Mora Abuse: treat a person with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly. Unfortunately, childhood abuse is common, and if you have experienced it, whether physical, verbal, or sexual, I want to say that I am sorry for what happened to you. No excuse in the world can excuse what that […]

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Avoiding the Digital Trap

By roubicekandthacker Porn addicts who have used the internet countless times to act out are now being asked to move all t Source:: https://lifestarcentralvalley.wordpress.com/2020/04/30/avoiding-the-digital-trap/

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QotD: “71% of child sex abuse images are from Netherlands”

By antiplondon The majority of online child sexual abuse material is hosted in the Netherlands, where greater internet freedoms have made the country a hub for illegal websites, figures show. The Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) has said that 90 per cent of URLs for child abuse content are in Europe, the majority in the Netherlands. […]

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Are You Doing Accountability The Wrong Way?

By Sathiya Sam Has someone talked to you about the importance of community recently? How about the value of vulnerability? I bet you’ve seen content on both subjects at least once in the last six months. Interestingly enough – science has shown the percentage of people in this world without ANY confidants (not even one) […]

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What Are You Running From?

By Brittni De La Mora Everybody Has Issues Some people were taught how to deal with them healthily by addressing them, processing them, and learning from them. However, the vast majority were not taught those valuable lessons. Rather than healing from the heartbreak, you might have been taught to avoid it. Instead of managing your […]

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3 Ways COVID Cures Porn Addiction

By Sathiya Sam COVID is changing everything. We don’t know how exactly, but it’s clear that things will never be the same. I have to be honest; the scale of this situation feels similar to September 11, 2001. This is a global situation that will have long-term global ramifications. I am ever the opportunist. I […]

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