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QotD: “PayPal cuts off Pornhub over child abuse videos”

By antiplondon PayPal has stopped processing payments for the world’s biggest pornography website after it was found to be hosting illegal content, including videos depicting child sexual abuse. The electronic money transfer service had enabled Pornhub to pay people who are part of a company scheme under which porn stars and amateur models can earn […]

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eXXXamine | Meet Porn Star Lisa Ann *BONUS EPISODE

By Brittni De La Mora In this BONUS episode of eXXXamine, ex-porn star, Brittni De La Mora has a real & raw conversation about porn & purity with Porn Star Lisa Ann. In this episode, Lisa talks about the adult film industry, mental health, what’s changed in the industry since she started in the ’90s, […]

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The Day I Finally Felt Free

By Carl Thomas I used to say that it’s been ten years since I found freedom from porn. But the truth is, it’s been ten years since I stopped looking at it. I wasn’t free for a while after that. Why do I say this? Well, here’s the thing… We need to understand that true […]

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To my porn addict.

By XXXchurch Visitor Letter to myself: I see you in the shadows haunting me every night, torturing me during the day. I see the way you sneer every time I say I’ll do better next time. I hear the lies you plant inside my head from morning to evening. But I’m through with them. I’m […]

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A Woman’s Guide to Overcoming Pornography

By Alice Taylor One in three visitors to adult websites are women. Porn addiction isn’t just a guy’s issue, but despite this reality, there’s still a lot of shame and stigma surrounding the topic in Christian communities. This is changing thanks to the work of ministries like XXXchurch.com and others who include women in their […]

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eXXXamine Ep. 2 Ex-Porn Star Interviews a Pastor

By Brittni De La Mora Two weeks ago, we introduced you to Bri Azucena, a former porn addict who through Christ, accountability, and using the XXXchurch.com resources, quit watching porn for good. This week I interviewed TJ Anglin, a Pastor at Cornerstone Church of San Diego. To prepare for this interview, I turned to social […]

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How I Got Rid Of My Lustful Thoughts

By Brittni De La Mora In the De La Mora household, we have an acronym we use often. H.O.T because we like to keep things Honest, Open, and Transparent. There’s no other way I know how to be, so let’s keep it HOT today. When I left the porn industry, I had a lot going […]

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What To Do When Your Spouse Is Hooked On Porn

By Forest Benedict A husband’s compulsive pornography use is rarely disclosed voluntarily. Most men addicted to pornography experience deep shame and hide their choices, but despite well-crafted, guilt-ridden lies that mask their behavior, the truth emerges. Regardless how the wife finds out about the pornography addiction, the discovery is devastating for everyone involved. After this […]

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How I Found My Peace And Overcame My Porn Addiction

By Bri Azucena My life had come to a complete halt. I had lived over 12 years in secret, and I no longer wanted to. I was done! I had attended my fair share of church services, prayer meetings, and often responded to altar calls to be prayed for. However, I felt like nothing changed […]

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This One Thing Turned My Heart Away From Porn

By Brittni De La Mora We live in a world that can be so confusing at times. As an ex-porn star, I clearly remember feeling overwhelmed and out of place in life. It was almost as though I knew I wasn’t living the life I was designed to live. Because I felt unfulfilled, I started […]

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HOW TO STAY COOL, WHEN IT GETS HOT: GUARD YOUR THOUGHTS

By Brittni De La Mora HOW TO STAY COOL, WHEN IT GETS HOTWeek Three: Guard Your Thoughts It’s summertime! And it is getting hot. Wherever we go, we will see men and women wearing less clothing. What does this mean when we battle with lust? Temptation. This month we are on a mission to help […]

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HOW TO STAY COOL, WHEN IT GETS HOT: GUARD YOUR VISION

By Richard De La Mora HOW TO STAY COOL, WHEN IT GETS HOTWeek Two: Guard Your Vision It’s summertime! And it is getting hot. Wherever we go, we will see men and women wearing less clothing. What does this mean when we battle with lust? Temptation. This month XXXchurch.com is on a mission to help […]

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HOW TO STAY COOL, WHEN IT GETS HOT: GET OUT OF THE ROOM

By Brittni De La Mora HOW TO STAY COOL, WHEN IT GETS HOTWeek One: Get Out Of The Room It’s summertime! And it is getting hot. Wherever we go, we will see men and women wearing less clothing. What does this mean when we battle with lust? Temptation. This month XXXchurch.com is on a mission […]

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Melinda’s Story – When A Porn Star Quits Porn

By Brittni De La Mora Hi Friends, I am so excited to share Melinda’s story with you. This is such a full-circle moment. In 2013, I shared my story with Rachel. I met her at a porn convention while I was in the adult film industry. Rachel, a team member of XXXchurch, showed me God’s […]

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4 Ways to Respond to Your Spouse’s Porn Use

By Shaunti Feldhahn As an author and speaker about the inner thoughts and feelings of men, including the visual nature of men, I get a lot of questions from my audiences, like this very common one: “I just discovered my spouse is using porn and am devastated. What should I do?” My team and I […]

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3 Ways to Look and Not Lust

By Carl Thomas If you are a guy and have been involved in some sort of accountability group (like an online small group), no doubt the subject of “lust” has come up. In my group on Wednesday mornings we talk about this often. Usually the conversation focuses on 3 things: 1. What is lust? 2. […]

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3 Checks To Determine If You’re Lusting

By Carl Thomas As summer approaches, (if you are man especially) so do the visual distractions. Bikinis, short shorts, and mini skirts, the list goes on. Consequently, when you have all these things around you begging for your attention, it’s hard not to notice. And when you do (inevitably), the questions start to mount. Can […]

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Do I Have to Tell My Wife?

By X3 Which of the below scenarios would you be most afraid to tell your spouse? “Honey, I forgot to stop at the store and get milk.” “Sweetheart, I know I have been trying to eat better, but I had two Big Macs for lunch because they had a deal.” “Ummm… when you were at […]

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Can I Give My Husband Sexy Photos of Myself?

By Melissa Ruff This month we’ve been exploring some of the common “permission based” questions we get from people on a weekly basis. Questions that quite honestly, don’t help anyone. If you are a woman, maybe you’re wondering if taking those sexy photos for your husband is okay during his recovery from porn or if […]

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Breaking Porn Addiction to keep my vow

By XXXchurch Visitor Letter to myself: At a young age growing up I got introduce to porn, at that time the person that introduced me to it, I believe had no idea it would have such an effect on me, he was into the business of dubbing movies, i.e. copyright, and some of these movies […]

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Can Porn Be Good for Couples to Watch Together?

By X3 We’ve all heard the arguments. Porn is bad in heavy doses but it can be helpful in small doses when couple use it “responsibly.” Even Dr. Drew has maintained this type of stance at times. Of course not everyone shares this opinion, so then we get into questions and debates that go something […]

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Masturbation

By XXXchurch Visitor Letter to myself: ??? Letter from my sex addict: I have struggled off and on with pornography for most of my married life (30 years). Several years ago I shared this struggle with my wife. And although she was hurt by it, she was very supportive. For a long period of time […]

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Isn’t Game of Thrones Really Just Porn?

By Carl Thomas This is not exactly news, but in case you live in a cave, Game of Thrones (GOT) may be the biggest thing to hit TV since The Sopranos and Breaking Bad. And, consequently, as the series heads into its last season, there are a ton of questions surrounding it. Stuff like… Who […]

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